Seriously, dont. When you think about being a better person, bigger person, whatever, dont do it. Dont close your mouth and dont take shit. When someone is a bitch to you, be a bitch RIGHT back. Think of terrible things that annoy them so. Or simply slam their face into a wall, anything to get the point across. When someone starts rumors, face them. Stand up to them no matter effing what. But whatever you do, dont be the better person, youll never feel good about it, ever.